Love & Relationship

Love & Relationships
featuring bowling

Walking into the bowling alley, you look at the lanes and chosen 1. As a perfectionist, u wanted to bowl well. You stood wondering what is the oiling pattern as theis is quite a new alley and it's your fiest time here. You dragged your bag over and stared blindly at your equipments, thinking which ball to use.

Similarly in relationship, you get to know a group of friends, and you had a crush on this particular person. You have no idea what's in her mind, what she thinks about you, what type of approach to know her better. You think of ways that is possible to get you into her heart, just like bowling, u think of possible lines to get the ball into the pocket. With the fear of the slippery approach, you hesitated.

Testing it out...

You wouldn't know what will happen until you try. The first shot goes down the lane, trying to be conservative, you dare not put the shot out, you put it near the pocket, however, it is not a strike. You know that u should try moving out to carry a certain pin, however, you are afraid that the ball will land up in the gutter. You hesitated once again.

Friends advise you to give it a try to show him/her what you feel about him/her, just like sending the ball out. With the fear that the shot might turn out the way you didn't wanted, and hence losing to the people who had chosen the same lane. so should you or should you not?

Perfect Game = Perfect Relationship?

Shooting a perfect game is not only about skill, there are lots of factors determining whether you will be able to get it or not. Firstly, it depends if you are match up with the lanes. In the case of a relationship, whether it would be a successful relationship partly depends on fate. However, it doesn't mean you wouldn't be able to get it even if you are not match up. You can compensate it with equipments, just like support from your friends.

Secondly, it depends on the lane ability to allow you to make mistakes. If the lane is full of area, even if you miss your target, you might still be able to strike. Just like in the case of a relationship, people do make mistakes, so if one of them is able to accept the mistakes, chanel handbags will still work out. However, you should not take it for granted. Once u see that mistake, you shouldn't make some adjustment before it is too late when the oil carries down, you can't afford to make anymore mistakes.

Constantly moving...

You can't bowl on the same area for the whole game, especially when there's more than one bowlers on the same lane. The lane will change, just like human. You must make minor adjustment constantly so that you can afford to make minor mistakes and strike.

Focus...

Do not look at how other ppl stand out in your crush just like in bowling, do not look at how the others perform, concentrate on your own game. This will affect your concentration and hence u will start making silly mistakes.

The oiling chart...

Obtain information from friends around you and get a rough idea how your crush is like, what are her interest so on and so forth. From here, you are able to figure out which is the possible method or ways to get into her heart. However, you must still test it out by giving it a try. Similarly in bowling, do look at the oiling chart to get a rough idea of how the lane is oiled, than figure out what are the more suitable equipment and area to bowl in. In every case, you should still give it a try.

Self confidence

One of the most important factor. It allows you to make more good moves and do the things that will touch her, just like making good shots to the pocket...

::CREDITS::

Aspiration given by Raymond Wong